Saturday, November 8, 2008

to a fren of mine..

hey fren,it has been a veli long time since u went oversea(not veli long actually but feel like)..
well,i oso duno y i write this blog...
juz viewed ur facebook shown tat u r change from single to in a relationship..
quite happy when i seen that..
congratulation..i think my 'ah sou' would b a veli pretty girl..
got time intro to me..

still remember the night u went oversea??
sumting happened between us..
after that v dun talk to each other..
im soli coz i really cant tahan wat u hav did to me...
i hope after u went there...
when u think back..
u will noe who is right n who is wrong...
but i dun think im wrong..
i think u hav the same thought as me..

well...juz to say..
as v hav been fren for more than 10years..
i really hope our frenship can last for another 10 years..
then another 10years again...
i really do treat u as my best fren..
i really do...

but one thing..
pls change ur attitude n ur temper...
u cant always say,'haiya,u dunno my temper 1 meh??im like tat 1..'
pls..v r fren..
i am ur fren...
im not ur mother...
pls dun shout at me...
pls dun always show tat u r better than me...
i really cant tahan tat..
u noe what i mean..

as a fren..
i really hope that u can change ur temper soon...
it will be better for u if u change it..

n last..
i really hope to b fren again wif u...
but this time i wont say sorry to u...
u should noe who should say sorry...
that's the condition..

last last...
i wish u n my 'ah sou' will b 'white head until old'(or mayb until death??)
n all the best to u in everything...
remember to take care of urself there..
wear condom before u do..(although i strongly disagree sex be4 marriage)
take care..
my best fren..

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

OpppssSs... Alrite, i think guys frenship is juz a while normally, brothers mar, no dendam one don worry... =) So nice tat u tried to hold d frenship while stay on ur rite side, u reali big adi, can be a gud man adi hahahha! Keep it up! XD

shEngyi said...

haha.. a bit gay my fren... hahahaha jk jk.. keke^^ its good to spread out here! true feelings

Anonymous said...

Perhaps the friend of yours saw what you wrote on this blog.
Perhaps the friend of yours does appreciate this friendship a lot.
Perhaps the friend of yours does want to apologize to you.

Thinking of our childhood, why would our mother punish us as well when we have quarrel with our siblings and even though we did nothing wrong at all?
That's simply that, both our siblings and us did have faults when a quarrel occurred. This is why our mother punished everyone who are involved in the quarrel.

Same to you and the friend of yours. Perhaps he/she did something wrong that made you mad at him/her. Perhaps his/her fault was so great that you couldn't endure and tolerate anymore. Perhaps his/her fault was greater than yours; but you should not say that that wasn't your fault at all. Both sides do have faults when a quarrel occured. Both sides bear the same responsibility to apologize to each other. The friend of urs was mad at you because he thought that you did something wrong to him. If you insist that you did nothing wrong at all, I am pretty sure that the friendship between you and the friend of yours will not last long even if you two talk to each other again.

Perhaps the friend of yours is aware of his fault now.
Perhaps the friend of yours is ready to apologize to you now.
Perhaps the friend of yours does want to keep such long friendship to go longer.

But the question is, how?
How and what you and the friend of yours should do if both of you do want to maintain such long friendship?

Such a long friendship will not just end like this. There must be something that the friend of yours has been long enduring, but did not complain until it's finally burst.
Perhaps it's due to your selfishness, perhaps it's due to your culculativeness, perhaps it's due to..

Have a deep thought and think about it. What has you done that made the friend of yours mad at you even you two has been friends for more than 10 years? Perhaps he is already aware of his fault, and ready to take the initiative. How about you?

~SaMSoN WaI wAi~ said...

may i noe who is this??good english instead..haha!!